tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post1443738390035070319..comments2024-01-27T19:41:05.143+08:00Comments on Nuraina A Samad's 3540 Jalan Sudin: I'm Sorry, Presana Narayanan....NURAINA A SAMADhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07671206532110686716noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-66164078312772256782012-09-02T11:49:08.166+08:002012-09-02T11:49:08.166+08:00I just came across this article. I'd like to s...I just came across this article. I'd like to share that I know a Malayalee person who is like Presana. She is a parent at my child's school. What is shocking is is criticizes Tamils only when she is in the company of a non-Tamil. I was shocked when she told me about how she is raising her sons not to socialize with Tamils and she will never accept a Tamil daughter in law. Me being a liberal, was dumb founded to hear it. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-61537985448304954832012-06-14T16:14:58.477+08:002012-06-14T16:14:58.477+08:00wow, just reading abt this incident today.
You kno...wow, just reading abt this incident today.<br />You know, everyone is so bent up with the indian girl's doing. What about the indian guy at the cybercafe? why did no one bother to check the cctv or the cybercafe logs and punish the guy so that it will be a lesson for all harasser?<br />im not saying what she did was right. im just saying we are fighting for the wrong things.. *sigh*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-69699535179873710712012-06-04T14:30:20.751+08:002012-06-04T14:30:20.751+08:00hak55: let's hope it doesn't get any worse...hak55: let's hope it doesn't get any worse...NURAINA A SAMADhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07671206532110686716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-80047065190881135822012-06-03T17:51:24.027+08:002012-06-03T17:51:24.027+08:00Indians insulting Indians, it's rare but it do...Indians insulting Indians, it's rare but it does happen but the more common happening now and is the most worrying are Malays insulting Malays in this country and this has been going on for far too long.<br /><br />The government is also seen to take sides and this is what that is actually worrying me!hak55https://www.blogger.com/profile/04469485077248980573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-20435390106155689782012-06-02T18:15:26.969+08:002012-06-02T18:15:26.969+08:00azure: absolutely..
indira: my sentiments exactly...azure: absolutely..<br /><br />indira: my sentiments exactly.NURAINA A SAMADhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07671206532110686716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-42875855663595446252012-06-02T18:14:30.467+08:002012-06-02T18:14:30.467+08:00Selwam: actually, when i found out about presana a...Selwam: actually, when i found out about presana and then read her postings/updates, i was quite sad. i couldn't believe that someone like her, raised in malaysia -- felt such prejudice against tamils. <br /><br />i know who she is angry with -- some good-for-nothing tamils who harassed her. but they don't represent all tamils.<br /><br />there are always bad apples. <br /><br />i mean, people hate mat rempits. i hate them too. there have been times, i just want to knock them down.<br />most mat rempits are malays. but not all malays are rempits.<br />if someone were like presana, then can u imagine what would be said of malays?<br /><br />i hope she has wisened up. really, she's already 31...not a kid.NURAINA A SAMADhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07671206532110686716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-18107112578680771492012-06-02T00:51:52.044+08:002012-06-02T00:51:52.044+08:00Indira: Hi Nuraina. Honestly speaking.. i have nev...Indira: Hi Nuraina. Honestly speaking.. i have never seen those people around me grouped as Tamil, Malayalee, Telegu, Benggali, Punjabi etcc. I come from a family mixed with Tamils, Malayalees and Telegu, Ceylonese , Chinese all through marriages and i have no time to separate any one of them. They are people. That's all. <br />It suprises me how can one being born and bred in Malaysia, can simply take some much time in turning out to be a racist. It certainly doesn't help or benefit anyone.<br /> Thank You.<br />Have a nice day.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-68568802563810602502012-05-30T22:25:33.211+08:002012-05-30T22:25:33.211+08:00It is normal for most Indians to view themselves a...It is normal for most Indians to view themselves as 'Telugu', Tamil etc etc.<br /><br />I never knew I was Malaylee until I was 19. Never knew there was a difference.Azure SKyenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-38596390568829807012012-05-30T22:24:14.958+08:002012-05-30T22:24:14.958+08:00I am a Malayalee.
However, I never knew I was Mal...I am a Malayalee.<br /><br />However, I never knew I was Malayalee or Indian as a kid. I never knew how to tell people aprt by their race/ colour of their skin.<br /><br />My parents made sure we treated people based on their insides- their heart, their soul.<br /><br /><br />I have had bad experiences with some Tamils. I don't speak their language, we speak English at home.<br /><br />My friends consists of mostly non-Indians, only because I dont speak Tamil. Even then, these people still have things to say about every bloody thing.<br /><br />I dont understand their ways- I have heard things being said by some of the idiotic, childish boys :'She thinks she's so pretty because she's fair skinned la'. - all because I pay no attention to their cat-calls & them.<br /><br />There are more. I just don't care. You know why? They're just ridiculous.<br /><br />But, not everyone is like this. I have close friends who are of Tamils origin. They're great- smart, funny, super fun to be with.<br /><br />Honestly I just don't care. I know who my friends are.<br /><br />What Presana did was not right. Not everyone behaves the way she's said they do. It's ridiculous to judge people like that, unless they have personally deliberately hurt you.Azure SKyenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-26376067172212678932012-05-30T16:27:18.030+08:002012-05-30T16:27:18.030+08:00Wow, as a Non-Indian, you have spoken your mind ve...Wow, as a Non-Indian, you have spoken your mind very prudently and not to mention, maturedly (I don't know how old you are). Well said, fellow sister!An Indiannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-89566715796154584722012-05-30T00:10:16.987+08:002012-05-30T00:10:16.987+08:00Nuraina, this presana really made me mad by her co...Nuraina, this presana really made me mad by her comments. I wrote a lengthy comment in my FB but decided not to post that, simply because i didnt wana do the same mistake as hers. Yes there are few ethnic groups between Indians, and all of us have our complaints at each other. But as you have pointed out, it exists everywhere. Even tamils have certain opinion on telugus, malayalees and sikhs, but all that purely on perception. So you just cannot blow your top with that kind of perception. Presana in her so-called apology had mentioned two incidents that made her to post those comments. I can relate more than that to complain about telugus, malayalees and sikhs whom i have known, but is that fair to them? Is presana so ignorant to perceive all tamils in that way? As you said, she was very clear and firm in uttering those comments, that is why exactly the tamils find very difficult to forgive her. Does she think the anti pages will disappear the next day? Never. And im saying her statement as "so-called apology" as it never sounds like a sincere one. And it came out through an excusive news report (which not a wide-read paper, unfortunately). But the damage was done at social media which open to the whole world. If she is really sincere, she must come out to openly to apologise. Till then, she will be haunted by her own deeds.Selwamnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-43971806789152840402012-05-29T19:20:52.452+08:002012-05-29T19:20:52.452+08:00Nicely written .. where is the like button? :) Che...Nicely written .. where is the like button? :) Cheers ..Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03309881239058004752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-4921249764423200192012-05-29T16:24:16.659+08:002012-05-29T16:24:16.659+08:00i don't know whether Presana is alone in her v...i don't know whether Presana is alone in her viewing the Indian community as Tamil, Malayalee, telegu< Benggali, Punjabi etcc or it is normal for Indians to see themselves in the different groups.NURAINA A SAMADhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07671206532110686716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-32120255437430332382012-05-29T15:51:00.506+08:002012-05-29T15:51:00.506+08:00mae: hmmm...really? is that a fact?mae: hmmm...really? is that a fact?NURAINA A SAMADhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07671206532110686716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-47404197055053801232012-05-29T15:50:29.659+08:002012-05-29T15:50:29.659+08:00bruno: i wsa utterly shocked by her remarks about ...bruno: i wsa utterly shocked by her remarks about Tamils. At the same time, I think i know where she was coming from. But she was deeply misguided by her anger at some Tamils that formed her prejudice. However, she has made references to her grandfather treating Tamils the way they should be treated. That was scary. Like the KKK...you know...I shiver and quiver when people speak of "treating people the right way"...<br /><br />I hope she has realized her foolish thinking. I hope it has nothing to do with the way she was raised -- her upbringing..<br /><br />I know stereotyping and prejudices...we all are guilty of a little of that....but not in a dangerous or alarming way...<br /><br />still, presana was unbelievable...makes me think that an Indian of Tamil descent must have hurt her in a real bad way...but that would be pure speculation on my part...<br /><br />Have a nice day!NURAINA A SAMADhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07671206532110686716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-85794994561146678772012-05-29T15:28:49.842+08:002012-05-29T15:28:49.842+08:00My experience, a Malayalee socialise nicely with T...My experience, a Malayalee socialise nicely with Tamilians but when they are with Malays they belittle the Tamilians.maenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-24763282622797325062012-05-29T15:21:40.151+08:002012-05-29T15:21:40.151+08:00well saidwell saidAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-23328297575688681452012-05-29T13:24:29.286+08:002012-05-29T13:24:29.286+08:00Hi Nuraina,
Well written! very nicely put!
cheers...Hi Nuraina,<br />Well written! very nicely put! <br />cheers!<br /><br />-FunkFatherBulat-Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38530403.post-25689918632001689342012-05-29T13:22:23.335+08:002012-05-29T13:22:23.335+08:00Nuraina,maybe this lady came from another planet a...Nuraina,maybe this lady came from another planet and has been out of touch with the civilised world.If that is the case then we have to excuse her for such an unruly behaviour.Have a nice day.brunonoreply@blogger.com